Monday, September 28, 2009
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i believe that if you do lie its only okay if its about like "oh your hair does look cute" .. even though its not close .. but its the matter of crushing someones confidence .. but try and be as truthful as possible .. like me .. i know i lie sometinmmes and then i feel like oh how can i cover up that loose end ... so its bvetter to just tell the truth
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Sorry: did this spinning wheel end on lies being good, or being bad? ;)
ReplyDeleteI've never really understood how lying to someone about his or her appearance got to be considered polite. It isn't polite, it's selfish; you don't want to be the one to drop the hammer of honesty on your friend/loved one. But I think allowing someone to walk into a social setting wearing that lime green cat suit that's slit up the side to show maroon fishnets, AND telling that person that he or she looks fine -- or even looks good -- that seems cruel. I would much rather know when something about my appearance or personal hygiene is less than perfect, so even if I can't fix it, at least I don't act like a complete fool, thinking I look good when just the opposite is true.
I agree Mr. Humphrey! That is Cruel!!! I really am asking someone for the truth about myslef. I dont want a lie!!! Because usually you can tell if someone is lying adn then you know it and it makes you feel worse so the truth is always safer in my opinion.
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